Women by Women
The more I read about awesome organizations like WisCon and the Carl Brandon Society, or blogs like FeministSF, and awards like the Tiptree, I wonder why the romance genre, this genre that is purported to be “for women, by women,” shies away from in-depth discussion and deconstruction of the romance novel and the society that influences it. Here we have two forums for discussion between readers and authors (RT and RWA), and instead of utilizing it to the fullest, the emphasis seems to be on how to write sex scenes (rather than how to use sex as a piece characterization), creating “yummy” heroes (instead of creating unique male leads that don’t feel like a repeat of one another from book to book), and other topics that serve to increase the formulaic texture of the romance novel.
A part of me believes that feminist critique and organizations within the sf/f genre exist because women are marginalized within that genre; the romance genre is dominated by women, there is a subconscious attitude that there is nothing to fight (that opens a whole ‘nother can of worms) and that the genre is feminist because it supposedly frees sexual shackles and gives women a safe place to explore their fantasies.
Okay, a valid assertion. However, it never ceases to amaze me that many within the genre want respect, yet the moment a conversation veers towards critical discussion, the tone heats (I call it the “hater” syndrome wherein opinions are invalidated and misconstrued as someone tearing the other down; having a personal opinion is not applicable) and ye olde arguement: “It’s just a romance novel/entertainment/fantasy, it isn’t literature.”
The latter part always shocks me. Isn’t a bound work of writing literature? And on that note, weren’t a significant portion of works we consider to be “classic literature” originally popular/pulp/penny-dreadful/written for money? Not to mention that viewing the romance genre and “classic literature” as sitting on opposite ends of the literary spectrum is an insult to one’s intelligence–and isn’t very feminist at all. It seems sort of on par with the RT convention turning into bachelorette party disguised as a romance genre meet-and-greet to lessen the stigmas placed on both female sexuality and the image of the average romance reader being a middle-aged, sexually-deprived housewife.
When people do engage in critique of the romance genre, they are accused of “ripping the romance industry a new one” [1]–also an insult to women. It implies that women are sensitive creatures who need a “positive,” “nurturing,” and “sweet” atmosphere to produce their wonderful works. This leads me to assume that many view critiquing the genre, or gasp, reviewing a book with no holds barred as somehow “masculine,” therefore unwelcome within the genre. Really doesn’t leave room for the multifaceted being that is woman (and in fact, just human), and really buys into the myth that being “opinionated” equals being like a “man.”
Because of this, I feel “women’s issues” are handled with kid gloves by the romance industry. We’ll get the occasional debate on forced seduction/rape in romance, but the discussion hardly ever evolves into the issues of rape and female sexuality, instead turning into a slugfest over defending individual “fantasies.” Don’t get me started on the topic of fetishism within the romance genre. (another “fantasy”). Certainly tastes are subjective, but discussion should not be about likes and dislikes, nor “right” vs “wrong.”One wouldn’t read a “classic” without analysis of the author, the background and the history behind the novel. Why isn’t a romance novel allotted that same respect?
Perhaps the romance genre needs to be seasoned, the way sf/f and mystery was–perhaps within twenty or so years, we’ll be ready to view the genre objectively and honestly.
But that feels like a cop-out, doesn’t it?
5 comments May 14, 2008
